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The Last Time She Called Me Mama

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The Last Time She Called Me Mama is a post about how the changing seasons of motherhood can hit us at the least expected times. 

I was stubborn as they come when I was little. My mom readily admitted when I was growing up that had I been the first child, I would have been the only. I am the last child. I’m still stubborn to this day. I am opinionated and usually voice my thoughts loudly, even when maybe I shouldn’t. Okay, a lot of times I probably shouldn’t. Yet and Still, my mom still calls me her baby. As stubborn as I may have been, there’s no greater love than hers. I didn’t understand that love and all that came with it until I gave birth to my first.

There’s something about becoming a mama that changes the way you love.

The deep, never ending, yearning love that you only have for your children. That makes you want to go to the ends of the world to protect them at all costs. The love that no matter how frustrating they can make you, if they get hurts 35 seconds later you will run to them. You will run fast and coddle them to ease their pain.

I should have known that I was going to get payback for being as stubborn as I was. But I never knew it would happen so quickly. My first daughter refused for the longest time to say mama. It was always dada this and dada that. I remember my heart bursting the first time I heard mama. It’s one of those moments that you go around texting and calling everyone, making sure to post on Facebook and Instagram. Somehow the first “mama” and your kid pooping on the toilet are both in that list, but I digress, that isn’t the point.

The first time I heard mama, my heart exploded.

I knew I was a mama, but hearing this tiny little thing say mama is something so damn special. There’s many moments in parenting that are like that. But this is one of the most special.

She’s 6 now, and a lot of things have changed during the last few years. There’s been many more firsts and watching her grow has been beyond amazing (and challenging). The other day though, in the midst of everything, as we were opening new Christmas toys and setting up new terrariums and building Legos, I heard “mom”.

“Hey, mom.”

It was like a punch in the gut. I wasn’t sure what in that moment really made me think about it or ponder the way things have been changing over the last few months. Teeth are falling out, she’s learning to read, and growing into her own personality. But I caught myself wondering, when was the last time she called me Mama? Or Mommy? When did I become mom?

I didn’t cry in front of her (though I do often), but later that night, I got her ready for bed, laid her down and got her to sleep.  It was in that moment that I really allowed myself to feel the weight of those earlier moments.  “Mom.”  Tears poured from my eyes as I thought that she’s 6 now. These moments are going to happen way more often now that she’s growing up.  Six now means that if we double that just 2 more times, she’s on her own.  I’m closer now to her being a teenager than being my newborn and the weight of those thoughts is just so heavy.

It’s the first, I’m sure of many, gut wrenching moments in parenthood that I’m going to realize that my little girl is growing into a bigger girls. Sure, every season I’m changing clothes into bigger sizes, she no longer depends on breastmilk and her car seat is no longer rear facing, but it’s such a sucker punch when you realize that was one of most joyous moments of your life, is forever changed.

Since then, I’ve tried to make a mental note and while on occasion a Mama has slipped out, mom is usually the describing name that I get addressed as most frequently.

I’m not sure the last time she called me Mommy, but I know I’ll always be her mommy and forever and always she will always be my little girl. (As stubborn as she may be) 

 

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Honey Glazed Carrots Recipe (Vegan Option)

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This Honey Glazed Carrots Recipe will have even the pickiest of veggie eaters enjoying the sweet taste of glazed baby carrots. Pair this simple side dish with almost any main course for a quick and simple dinner. 

These glazed baby carrots changed my whole outlook on carrots.  Originally, I had a variation of them at a friends house. Even though I was reluctant to try them, I still did and I’m so thankful for that. It’s one of the most simple side dish recipes that you can find, taking just about 10-12 minutes to make from start to finish.  These honey glazed baby carrots are the perfect side dish for almost any meal you could plan.

There’s also a variation of these honey glazed baby carrots in case you or someone you are serving is vegan or plant based. In order to make vegan glazed carrots, we make a quick swap and it takes the same amount of time.

What ingredients do you need for Honey Glazed Carrots Recipe?

In order to make this simple and delicious honey glazed carrots recipe, you’re going to need just 7 ingredients.  What is great about that is that 3 of them are spices that you likely already have on hand and make this simple side dish even easier. These  brown sugar glazed carrots are literally perfect for the pickiest of eaters, including those little ones.

The ingredients that you need for these honey glazed carrots are:

  • baby carrots
  • cinnamon
  • coconut oil
  • brown sugar
  • honey
  • salt
  • pepper

I know many people don’t think of salt and pepper going with something that has cinnamon and honey in it, but trust me this glazed baby carrots recipes will be one of your favorite recipes.

I am vegan. How do I make these into vegan glazed carrots?

Since writing this recipe, we are now vegan/plant based. Because of that, I now more fully understand the need of people adhering to this type of lifestyle and their dietary needs.  Luckily, this honey glazed baby carrots recipe, is insanely easy to swap to make into vegan glazed carrots. In fact, I even have two options for you depending on your preferences.

The only swap that you need to make to this brown sugar glazed carrot recipe in order to make vegan is to swap out the honey. You can make the swap by using either agave or maple syrup.  If using agave, you don’t need to make any other changes, follow the directions as written.  If you are using maple syrup, because it is less sticky, you should cook for an extra 2-3 minutes so the flavors can develop a bit longer.

I’m allergic to coconut. How can I make this a Top 8 Allergy Friendly recipe?

If you need to swap out the coconut oil because of an allergy for this honey glazed carrots recipe, all you need to do is replace it, in the same quantity, with a similar cooking oil.  If you are looking for a coconut oil substitute for these glazed baby carrots, I suggest grapeseed or sunflower oil.  However, any oil, or even butter (dairy free if needed) will work. It will change the taste slightly, so we do recommended replacing something that is mild, even slightly sweet, that won’t be very strong.

How to Make Glazed Carrots

Honey glazed baby carrots are such an easy side dish recipe to make. If you are short on time, you will definitely love trying to make this recipe. Simply melt coconut oil into a pan on medium high heat. Once you’ve done that, add in your carrots. Cook the carrots for 5 minutes. Then, add in salt and pepper to taste, along with cinnamon, honey, and brown sugar. Continue cooking until the carrots are fork tender. Then done! It’s seriously that simple.

Watch us make these honey glazed carrots with a delicious Honey Citrus Salmon in under 30 minutes!

What main dish pairs well with honey glazed carrots?

These honey glazed baby carrots are the perfect side dish for a wide variety of dinners. While the carrots themselves take just a few minutes to make, they pair well with quick or elaborate dinner ideas that you could make. Whether you are throwing dinner in the instant pot or creating an intricate meal, this easy baby carrots recipe is the perfect dish for you.

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Honey Glazed Carrots Recipe
Prep Time
2 mins
Cook Time
10 mins
Total Time
12 mins
 

This Honey Glazed Carrots Recipe will have even the pickiest of veggie eaters enjoying the sweet taste of glazed baby carrots. Pair this simple side dish with almost any main course for a quick and simple dinner. 

Course: Side Dish
Cuisine: American
Keyword: side dish, vegetable dish
Servings: 8 people
Calories: 62 kcal
Author: Larisha Campbell
Ingredients
  • 1 tbsp coconut oil (swap if tree nut allergy - see notes)
  • 1 lb baby carrots
  • 2 tbsp brown sugar
  • 2 tbsp honey (swap with agave or maple syrup if veagn *See post notes)
  • 1 tsp cinnamon
  • salt and peper, to taste
Instructions

  1. Melt coconut oil over medium heat in a large skillet. 

  2. Once melted, add in baby carrots. Stir to coat with the coconut oil. Let cook for 3 minutes. 

  3. Add in remaining ingredients and stir well. 

  4. Reduce heat to medium low and cook carrots for an additional 7-9 minutes or until carrots are easily pierced with a fork. 

  5. Remove from heat and serve. 

Recipe Notes

**Nutritional facts are just estimates. Please utilize your own brand nutritional values to double check against our estimates. 

Nutrition Facts
Honey Glazed Carrots Recipe
Amount Per Serving (0.25 cup)
Calories 62 Calories from Fat 9
% Daily Value*
Fat 1g2%
Saturated Fat 1g6%
Sodium 45mg2%
Potassium 134mg4%
Carbohydrates 12g4%
Fiber 1g4%
Sugar 9g10%
Vitamin A 7820IU156%
Vitamin C 1.5mg2%
Calcium 24mg2%
Iron 0.5mg3%
* Percent Daily Values are based on a 2000 calorie diet.

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*This post was originally published on 8/13/2018. Text updated to add a vegan version. 

The Fresh Princess – Will Smith’s children’s book

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Watch out 90s kids! Will Smith is coming for your wallet in a new way! Just announced a new children’s book series – The Fresh Princess. 

If you grew up in the 90s, The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air likely blasted on your TV daily.  It was one of the most iconic TV shows to ever grace cable network and it still continues to be a hit to this day. Will Smith played the fictional character by the same first name who went to live with his wealthy aunt and uncle on the other side of the country after his mom sends him away from Philadelphia. He’s goofy and often get into trouble, but there’s many life lessons learned throughout the six years that the show aired.

Will Smith has continued to grace us with his genius through music, movies, and more since the show ended and once he started his Instagram channel, millions have tuned into his life lessons and silly antics on there as well. Today, he announced via his Instagram stories that he has been working on a new project and it’s one that millennial parents are going to go crazy over.  It combines our love for the iconic Fresh Price of Bel-Air with our love for our own children today.

Introducing The Fresh Princess. 

The Fresh Princess is a new children’s book created by Will Smith being author by Denene Millner is being published by HarperCollins Children’s Books. It will be a three-book deal that launches with Fressh Princess. The illustrated with be Gladys Jose.

According to HarperCollins, the book will follow Destiny a strong-willed and energetic girl. She has her own style, but eventually moves to a new neighborhood.  Nothing is the same there. She has new challenges, but always a plan, and always brings the fun. She gets reminders from her loving family about remembering what being the Fresh Princess means. And she jumps in after that! The Fresh Princess is the perfect book to encourage kids to proudly stand out and be themselves!

Now our children can fall in love with this iconic character from our childhood. But it will be all for themselves in a new way!

The book is availabel now for pre-ordered and will be released on 4/2/2019.

If you want to buy The Fresh Princess you can pre-order on Amazon. 

 

Lactation Energy Bites

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Lactation Energy Bites are the go to recipe for breastfeeding moms.  They are no bake cookie balls that are easy to make, just 6 ingredients, super flavorful and beneficial. These no bake lactation bites can be made Top 8 Allergy Friendly and vegan if needed. 

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My own breastfeeding journey, had plenty of ups and downs.  There’s lots of things that may have you questioning your supply. Before you continue reading, if you are a new mom or here because you think you have low supply, I encourage you to read 50+ Breastfeeding Myths Busted.

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Almost a year and a half into my first breastfeeding dyad, I heard about lactation cookies.  It seemed like ever since I first heard about them, I learned about so many other different types of lactation products– like bread, smoothies, and even energy bites.  I wish I would have known about these when we were early on in our nursing relationship and I was constantly looking for something to pop in my mouth.  I first learned about these from the Breast is Best Facebook page.  They are my go to recipe for myself and other new moms!

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Funny story about the first time I made lactation energy bites

The funniest story happened the first time I ever made these no bake lactation bites . Andrew came home and I was still working on dinner.  He was hungry and opened the fridge and saw the bites and popped one in his mouth.  He then asked what they were and I simply said “Lactation Energy Bites”.  His face was priceless and he ran to the trash can.  “Why didn’t you tell me your milk was in them?”, he shouted! I couldn’t stop laughing as I tried to tell him there wasn’t breast milk in them. Lactation energy bites are supposed to HELP with milk production. It was hysterical.

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What ingredients do you need for a lactation energy bites recipe?

These no bake lactation bites are seriously one of the easiest recipes you will ever make in your entire life.  You just need six total ingredients for this super easy lactation bites recipe. The ingredients that you need to make this recipe are:

  • old fashioned oats
  • chocolate chips
  • creamy peanut butter
  • ground flaxseed
  • raw honey
  • vanilla

Those are the only ingredients you need to make this delicious lactation energy bites recipe!

How can I make these lactation energy bites recipe Top 8 Allergy friendly?

Sometimes moms have their own food allergies, and other times, breastfeeding causes moms to have to do some sort of elimination diet.  Luckily, we can help with those allergies too!  In order to make these lactation energy bites Top 8 Allergy free, you are going to want to make a few changes.

First, ensure that the old fashioned oats that you are using are gluten free.  While oats themselves are gluten free, sometimes companies list cross contamination with gluten on their labels.  Make sure that you have a safe oat brand.

Next, pick a chocolate chip like Enjoy life in your recipe. Enjoy life chips are soy and dairy free (and all other Top 8+ allergens).

Lastly, swap the creamy peanut butter for sunbutter. It acts the same and it will taste different than our original recipe was written, but it will ensure that these lactation energy bites recipe is Top 8 Allergen friendly.

Of course, if you only have one of these allergies, you can always make the swap that you need.

Can I make these lactation energy bites recipe vegan?

Of course, you can make these vegan no bake lactation bites!  In order to do that you’ll again want to pick a chocolate chip like Enjoy Life in the recipe to ensure there’s no dairy in your chocolate.  Next, you can switch out the honey for the same amount of agave. With those two simple swaps, you will make these vegan lactation bites!

How do you make these lactation energy bites?

Once you have the ingredients that you are going to use to make these lactation energy bites, you need to grab a large bowl. Simply add all the ingredients into the bowl and combine really well.

Next, form into balls and place on a parchment paper lined baking sheet.

Finally, put them into the fridge to set up (about 2-3 hours) and then grab and go! That’s it! Told you, easy peasy!

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Can you freeze these lactation energy bites?

You absolutely can freeze these no bake lactation bites. In order to do so, make the recipe according to the instructions. Once you have the balls made, place them on a wax lined baking sheet instead of parchment paper.  Place in the freezer for 2 hours.  Once the time is up, you can place the balls into an air tighter container or ziploc bag. Leave in the fridge for as long as you need them (up to 3 months).  Remove desired amount from freezer and allow to thaw before consuming.

Do you have to be lactating to eat these no bake lactation bites?

I get these question often and the answer is 100% no. In fact, my children and even Andrew (now that he knows my breastmilk isn’t in them) enjoys them every time that I make them.  There’s no ingredients in these that isn’t safe for anyone.  It’s just that the ingredients combined together, just happen to be great for lactating mothers.

One important note though, children under 1 shouldn’t consumer honey for risk of botulism.  If you have a child under one that you would like to give these to, please follow the directions above for making these vegan.

What are other lactation recipes that are good for milk production?

You may be looking for other lactation boosting recipes in addition to these lactation energy bites.  Our favorite recipes are:

You may also be interested in these other lactation boosting recipes!

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Lactation Energy Bites
Prep Time
10 mins
Total Time
10 mins
 

Lactation Energy Bites are the go to recipe for breastfeeding moms.  They are no bake cookie balls that are easy to make, minimal ingredients, but still flavorful and beneficial.

Course: Snack
Cuisine: American
Keyword: lactation bites, lactation recipes
Servings: 36 1in bites
Calories: 121 kcal
Author: Larisha Campbell
Ingredients
Instructions
  1. In a large bowl, add all ingredients.
  2. Stir until very well combined

  3. Using a small cookie dough scoop or your hands, roll into 1" balls.

  4. Place on baking sheet.
  5. Place in fridge and let sit for 2-3 hours.
  6. Store in air tight container in the fridge.
  7. Eat as desired.
Recipe Notes

*Crunchy peanut butter will not hold these together well.

*Add an additional 1/4-1/2 cup of flaxseed if you really need an extra boost of milk production.

*Please see notes in post if you need to make these Top 8 Allergy Friendly or vegan.

Nutrition Facts
Lactation Energy Bites
Amount Per Serving (1 bite)
Calories 121 Calories from Fat 54
% Daily Value*
Fat 6g9%
Saturated Fat 1g6%
Sodium 37mg2%
Potassium 93mg3%
Carbohydrates 14g5%
Fiber 1g4%
Sugar 9g10%
Protein 3g6%
Vitamin A 10IU0%
Vitamin C 0.1mg0%
Calcium 20mg2%
Iron 0.6mg3%
* Percent Daily Values are based on a 2000 calorie diet.

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You might also like our Chocolate PB Banana Lactation Smoothie

lactation milkshake recipe

or our Peanut Butter Apple Pie Lactation Smoothie.

lactation boosting smoothie

This lactation energy bites recipe was only published on 3/18/2014. Then updated on 2/23/2018 and again on 2/20/2019.

We’ve updated the pictures in this post. Original pictures below.

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Beefless Vegan Stew

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This vegan stew recipe will blow you away. Super hearty and filling and perfect for any cold day.  Even the biggest carnivore will love this chickpea vegan beef stew recipe! This recipe is Top 8 Allergen Friendly, including gluten free. 

When we first went vegan/plant based, there was a lot of confusion.  What in the world did we eat?  For many people considering a plant based eating lifestyle, that is used to eating mainstream “traditional” meals, the thought alone is daunting. Many people assume that people who live a lifestyle like this just eat platefuls of broccoli and bowls of strawberries. While that may sometimes be true, the truth of the matter is that people who eat vegan or plant based eat a lot of traditional meals with small dietary changes.  Take this beefless vegan stew for example.  It’s just as hearty and filling as any traditional beef stew recipes; however, it’s just made without the beef. Even carnivores will love this vegan hearty soup recipe.

What ingredients do you need to make this beefless vegan stew?

When making this chickpea stew recipe, you are going to 15 ingredients for it to all come together.  Many of these ingredients are vegetables in this beefless vegan stew recipe. The ingredients that you need are:

  • Chickpeas
  • Carrots
  • Yellow Onion
  • Garlic
  • Celery
  • Potatoes
  • Corn
  • Peas
  • Crushed Tomatoes
  • Tomato Paste
  • Rosemary
  • Bay Leaves
  • Coconut Aminos (Can sub soy sauce or tamari)
  • Liquid Smoke
  • Vegetable Stock
  • Salt and Pepper

These are the ingredients that will make you the perfect bowl of hearty beefless vegan stew.

How do you make beefless vegan stew?

In order to make this chickpea stew recipe, you will start by chopping up all our your vegetables. Once your vegetables are chopped, add all the ingredients into a crockpot except for the peas and corn. Cook on low for 7-8 hours or on high for 3-4 hours.  15 minutes before serving, stir in your corn and peas.  Remove bay leaves and then serve.

After you are finished, store any remaining beefless vegan stew in an air tight container. It will last in the fridge 5-7 days.

Can I make this beefless vegan stew not in a crockpot?

Maybe you don’t have a crockpot or you want to make this beefless stew recipe in a shorter amount of time.  While we highly recommend slow cooking to allow the flavors to really develop and come together, there’s no reason you can’t make this recipe on the stove.  Start by reducing the amount of liquid by 1 cup. In a large pot or dutch oven, place all the ingredients together and cook for 30-45 minutes on low.  Your potatoes and carrots should be fork tender.  If you have more time, you can continue to let it cook on low for more time.

What other recipes pair well with this beefless vegan stew?

While this vegan stew recipe is perfectly delicious all on it’s on, some people love having sandwiches or other sides with their soup. Here’s some delicious sides that we think would pair nicely with this beefless vegan stew recipe.

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Beefless Vegan Stew
Prep Time
10 mins
Cook Time
8 hrs
Total Time
8 hrs 10 mins
 

This vegan stew recipe will blow you away. Super hearty and filling and perfect for any cold day.  Even the biggest carnivore will love this chickpea vegan beef stew recipe! This recipe is Top 8 Allergen Friendly, including gluten free. 

Course: Lunch, Main Course, Soup
Cuisine: American
Keyword: crockpot, soup, vegan
Servings: 16 servings
Calories: 339 kcal
Author: Larisha Campbell
Ingredients
  • 1 can chickpeas, drained (or 2 cups cooked chickpeas)
  • 28oz can crushed tomatoes
  • 1 quart low sodium vegetable stock
  • 2 tbsp tomato paste
  • 5 small potatoes, cubed
  • 4 large carrots, chopped
  • 1 medium yellow onion, diced
  • 5 cloves garlic, minced
  • 3 sticks celery, chopped
  • 1 tbsp fresh rosemary
  • 3 bay leaves
  • 1 tsp coconut aminos (can sub tamari or soy sauce)
  • 1 tsp liquid smoke
  • 1 can corn, drained
  • 1 cup fresh or frozen peas
  • salt and pepper, to taste
Instructions

  1. Chop all your vegetables. 

  2. Add all the ingredients, except the corn and peas to a crockpot. 

  3. Stir to combine. 

  4. Cook for 7-8 hours on low or 3-4 hours on high in your crockpot (*See instructions in post for cooking on stove).

  5. 15 minutes prior to serving, add in the corn and peas and stir to combine. 

  6. Turn off heat and discard the bay leaves. 

  7. Serve. 

  8. Store any leftovers in an airtight container for 5-7 days in fridge. 

Recipe Notes

**Nutritional facts are just estimates. Please utilize your own brand nutritional values to double check against our estimates. 

Nutrition Facts
Beefless Vegan Stew
Amount Per Serving (1 serving)
Calories 339 Calories from Fat 27
% Daily Value*
Fat 3g5%
Sodium 1314mg57%
Potassium 2571mg73%
Carbohydrates 74g25%
Fiber 18g75%
Sugar 36g40%
Protein 16g32%
Vitamin A 4885IU98%
Vitamin C 80.3mg97%
Calcium 289mg29%
Iron 11.9mg66%
* Percent Daily Values are based on a 2000 calorie diet.

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They’re Not Really Your Friends

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This post, They’re not really your friends, is about the misconception of the social media era. It discusses the issues that arise when people believe social media follows equals friendship.   

Friend (noun): a person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection  (Family and romantic partners are usually excluded from this definition)

I remember a few years after Andrew (my fiancé) and I started dating, I was talking about “a friend.” He stopped me and said, “who are we talking about?” “Oh, my friend X,”. He looked at me and said, “why do you call everyone your friend? You don’t really know that person, y’all barely talk.

It’s easier sometimes to just call people your friends. Sometimes it also makes you feel good about yourself if you don’t have many close friends. Everyone wants to be the “popular” person, but very few are. I was well into my adulthood when I realized that I was never going to be one of those girls. I wasn’t one in middle or high school. And college was a bust too. I never got into one crowd and I sort of blew with the wind. It took me a long time to realize that there’s nothing wrong with that. And to be honest, it’s something I still have to work on.

Everyone wants to have friends. Everyone wants to be the even “sort of” popular person. Social media has pushed us even more to be on the up and up, in the know and keeping up with what everyone is doing. Have you watched the last shows, got your kids the latest clothes and best believe you should be sporting the latest tech gadgets – no longer if but how many Alexas do you own?

It’s so easy to get sucked into the desire to be everyone’s friends and call everyone your friend.

Unfortunately, They’re not really your friends.

“If someone doesn’t have your phone number, they aren’t really your friend”.

That seems like a simple enough  explanation right? We aren’t in middle school anymore. We aren’t writing KIT on a piece of paper and waiting around the phone for our friend to call us on our parents house line (or beep us or call our first cellphone but only after 7pm).

Everyone has a cellphone. Instantly, we can communicate with the entire world around us 24 hours a day. How can you say you are truly friends with someone if you don’t have a reliable source of communication with them?

It’s something I heard in one of the many groups I’m in on Facebook a few months ago. I can’t remember the group or the person that said it but the sentiment has stayed with me.

Facebook goes down (more regularly lately than in the past it seems). If it stayed down forever how many of those “friends” would you still talk to? How many of them are you trying to keep up with that could care or less if they ever spoke to you again if it never came back up? What is the number of times you realized that you were no longer “friends” with someone that you had previously  spent a good portion of time conversing with, sharing laughs and likeminded conversations.

Unfortunately, They’re not really your friends. None of them.

Even though I’ve had numerous reminders of this throughout the last few years, sometimes things need to happen to you for you to really realize it. A few years ago, a friend got off Facebook and said, “No one will check on your if you get off social media.” I laughed and brushed it off. I’ve taken a day off here and a weekend off there, but recently was offline for almost a week due to illness.

Want to know how many friends I had checking up on me? Two. That’s not to say I only have two friends, but sometimes it takes a moment like that to realize that the subtle messages you’ve been receiving are really true. You can have 17 million Instagram followers and 5000 Facebook friends, but what does that mean at the end of the day? Does it even matter if you don’t have a true form of actual communication with them?

Unfortunately, They’re not really your friends.

So who is?

You know who truly matters at the end of the day. Your family. The people that hug you tight and laugh with you, are there when you cry, and continue to check on you. While Facebook or Instagram may be an outlet or a way to escape for a few minutes, I encourage you, starting today, to put down the phone and actually spend more time with the people right there in front of you.

Take your kids for a walk. Go to dinner with a friend. Play a board game with your significant other. Strike up a conversation with the person at the gym who doesn’t have their phone out. You may be missing real connection with real people because your worries about people in a box, connected through data points, who would never check on you if you never logged in again.

Unfortunately, they’re not really your friends.

Kids Need to Set Goals Too

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Everyone needs motivation and the ability to see themselves setting and achieving goals.  No matter the age of the person, the benefits are great of setting goals. But most especially, kids need to set goals too.

Kids dream.  All the time they are constantly dreaming about things to do, places to go, how to drive you crazy for the day.  No matter what, they are always thinking of things. It’s one of the reasons why (as annoying as it can be sometimes) they consistently talk or have a hard time falling asleep.  They are learning so much everyday that it’s hard not to dream, imagine, and think of all those things. As soon as you start taking them on trips or opening their mind to new things, their minds will begin to wander. It’s beautiful really. Seeing them grow and development in that way. It’s such a joy when they randomly ask to go somewhere, eat something, or learn something new. And it’s all because of seeds that are being constantly planted in their head.

It’s for that very reason that all kid’s should have goals.

It’s easy for us as adults to have dreams and they simply remain dreams. And to be quite honest, there’s nothing wrong with having dreams that remain simply that. It gives you something to ponder and wonder and those things are always great to have.  However, as the quote goes, “your dreams are only your dreams until you write them down. …then, they are goals.”

Every year, we make goals.  Some people call them resolutions, but for many, we call them goals. Everyone wants something that is attainable and within reach, but goals give you something to strive for. Obviously some goals are smaller, while others are much bigger.  No matter your goals though, they are important.  And just like we have goals, we need our kids to set goals too.

Kids need to set goals too. 

From an earlier age, kids need to be setting their goals. By doing this, we are helping them learn that they should create a plan to achieve the things that they want to happen and how to act upon them.  It gives them something to look forward too and also teaches them so much more.

Goals help kid’s learn to focus on a task. Additionally, they trigger positive behaviors. They help to motivate and inspire them to achieve something. And probably one of the absolutely most important goals is that it builds characters.  Setting goals gives kids the ability to practice self-mastery or self-discipline.  When they set a goal, and then achieve it they are building themselves up for something greater.  They are able to see themselves as a person who can actually achieve something and ohhh how important it is for anyone, no matter their age, is see that they are able to achieve what they set out to do.

How do I have kids set goals?

The great news is that this isn’t some hard task that is going to take up a ton of your time. Especially if your child(ren) are under the age of 10, then this activity should take no more than 5-10 minutes. Once your child starting becoming a tween, and absolutely a teenager, this should be something that is well thought out and does take a little more time to do. However, I still wouldn’t expect it to take longer than 30-60 minutes.

Typically as adults we try to set goals in a series of categories.  Usually they are about finances, family, fitness and/or health, self-improvement and fun. However, for younger kids the use of categories isn’t important. Although, they would be great for older kids.

For younger kids, the best way to get them to start learning and exploring more about setting goals is to simply ask them “what would you like to do this year”. Let them guide the answers and come up with as many or as little as they want to. Try your best not to guide them into answers; however, if you see they are having a hard time, then you can give them tips about ideas – such as places they would like to go or travel too, something they would like to learn. Feel free to ask them to get more specific. For example, our oldest daughter wants to ensure she’s reading by the end of the year. I asked her how many books she thinks we should read and she gave me a number. Clarifying or expanding on an answer is great.

What age should I start having my kids set goals?

Three. You won’t get much of a response typically. But even just a few things to start them on their journey of setting and achieving goals is so important. As your child(ren) gets older, they will start thinking of more things (sometimes a little crazy depending on the age). Use the earlier years to really build a foundation and focus on the things that they truly want to accomplish over the next year.

This is our 3 Year Old’s Goal List: 

And this is our 6 Year Old’s Goal List: 

This is just a guide in helping your kids to set their own goals and learning how to achieve them.  No matter what, just remember that kids need to set goals too. 

Keeping Safe Online – Kaspersky Lab

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It was the late 90s before I had a computer in my own home growing up. It wasn’t until I was roughly 10 years old. We had a huge desktop computer that took up half of the desk. There was only one computer that was available for the entire house and of course it was dial-up. I vividly have nightmares about my mother picking up the phone to use it, only to kick me off of the internet. Back then, all you worried about was a virus protection program for your desktop and beyond that you didn’t worry about much.

Time’s have changed. 

It’s not uncommon in many homes today for every member of the family to have a computer or other smart device.  Not only that, but we are sharing a lot more information across the internet than we ever did before.  We pay our bills online, submit tax documents, and complete medical forms.  There is a lot more at risk in today’s world than every before.  This is all information that we would never get into the wrong hands. What we want to is keep all this information safe in the easiest way possible.

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Christmas Gifts Your Kids Are Guaranteed To Play With

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While this post about Christmas Gifts Your Kids Are Guaranteed To Play With is satirical in nature, the truth is these are really things your kids would play with longer than anything you are likely to buy them. 

Trying to decide what gifts to get our kids for the holidays is such a toss up. Do we get them things that we think they want, they need, they asked for? Which one or combination of ones is the best choice? That seems to be a question that every single parent asks every single year.  You would think by now that we’ve figured it out. Wrong.

Do We Give Gifts We Think They Want?

The first option, gifts we THINK they want. In someways this option is in a way us reliving out our own childhood. Gifts that maybe we didn’t get because it cost our parents too much or our parents didn’t like the idea. Now that we are in control of the gift giving sometimes that comes into play a little. At least I know here is does.

Sure there’s the whole, I know what they will play with or I know they’ve been asking for XYZ for a few months now. But I think there’s definitely a small part of every parent that wants to (and sometimes does) get a gift that they themselves wished for when they were little in hopes that it really is a magical thing for their own kid. And partly because WE want to play with it and see how it is. 

Do We Give Gifts They Need?

The next option, things we KNOW they need, aren’t things that they actually want. Look, I know….budget. You are trying to optimize the number of presents they have to open while not spending a $100 on every box that they have to unwrap. However, opening up a huge pack of socks and/or underwear isn’t their idea of a good time. Neither is a new toothbrush or body wash in their stocking.

Yes, it sure does help our spending later in the year. But truly, this is an idea that we likely just need to toss to the wind.

Do We Give Gifts They Ask For?

And then there’s the gifts that they ask for themselves. Now, if you’ve been a parent for more than 3 minutes, then you know sometimes kids make demands that are unreasonable. Why no, love child of mine, you cannot have the motorized Lamborghini, Barbie’s Superdeduper Ultimate Deluxe dreamhouse, the biggest set of legos known to man, and all of the bikes and helmets you see in the store. Their asks are typically completely unreasonable. Though one year my oldest did ask for a vacuum and used it for 23 minutes before never touching it again another day in her life.

So what gifts do we actually get them?

Don’t worry. I have figured out the answer and it’s going to be the best set of gifts you have ever bought. I mean these are Christmas gifts your kids are guaranteed to play with for more than 2 minutes before moving onto something else. Now, before we get into the list let me preface this with my suggestion that these gifts are in the 1-8ish year old age range. I’d venture to say that some of these could be used for an older crowd also but it totally depends on the nature of your child(ren).

These gift ideas that I’m going to share with you will have you way under budget- like seriously way under budget. You can actually get that new [insert thing you’ve been wanting] and not even feel guilty about it because you’re so under budget. Also, you will actually now have more time alone to finish that plate of hot food that you never get to enjoy.  So you’re welcome.

Now, without further ado… Christmas Gifts Your Kids Are Guaranteed To Play With

  • Cardboard boxes

    • It’s the ultimate toy. Nothing else is really needed.  Grab a bunch of different sizes and let them have at it.

  • Toilet paper rolls

    • My kid’s actually fight over who gets the toilet paper or paper towel rolls when they are empty.

  • Laundry baskets

    • It’s rodeo heaven around here in a laundry basket.  How fast can you go? Hide underneath it. Make it into a crib.  Endless possibilities.

  • Empty plastic bottles

    • They will stuff things inside, empty it, and repeat for hours.

  • Sealable sandwich bags

    • See above.

  • Empty plastic or reusable bags

    • They swear they are going places and will use it as a purse, luggage, or storage container. Just let them have at it.

  • Clothes hangers

    • If you really want to see a kid’s imagination at work, hand them some hangers. It’s hilarious.

  • Unusable cellphone

    • They want to mimic you. It’s better if it can at least light up and allow them to move around a screen, but even if it doesn’t and is truly unusable, they will still play with it.

  • Pots and pots

    • It’s the oldest household item used by a kid.  If you dare, hand them a wooden spoon along with it.

  • Bag of beans or dry pasta

    • Paired with a plastic bottle and they will play for hours.

  • Sticks from outside

    • Have to be careful with these, but they do last forever in the fun zone.

  • Maxi Pads and Tampons

    • I am amazed at how long a kid will play with these.

  • Old High Heel Shoes 

    • Girl or boy doesn’t matter, they think it’s hilarious to try to walk in them.

  • Potatoes

    • They will turn it in a baby or a host of a million other things, but the point is they will play forever.

  • Pinecones

    • I think they are prickly but kids seem to love doing things with pinecones.

  • Roll of tape or bottle of glue

    • This is the height of kid fun.

  • Plastic Cups

    • I’ve seen some pretty crazy things happen with a few plastic cups and lots of fun. Give it a try.

  • Towels or Blankets

    • Forts, forts, forts. No other commentary needed.

  • Spoons or Whisks

    • Just another one of the weird household things kids will play with forever.

  • Tissue Box

    • Pull tissues out. Put them back in. Repeat. Wipe something up, make it a doll blanket, use the box for some random craft. Lots of fun to a kid.

  • Leaves

    • One day my kids brought in a pile of leaves and played with them for over an hour. My mind was blown.

  • Plastic Containers and Large Bowls

    • There’s a reason that they won’t leave your drawer of “Tupperware” alone, it’s amazing to them. They will stack, restack, and sort for endless amounts of time.

So which idea do you think you little one(s) would like the best? Happy shopping!

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Festive Caramel Apple Cinnamon Roll Wreath

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This Caramel Apple Cinnamon Roll Wreath is the perfect brunch or breakfast meal for the holidays! The perfect brunch show stopper! You will wow everyone with this easy cinnamon roll centerpiece. 

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Warm, soft dough, layered with a caramel apple sauce is the most amazingly special cinnamon roll recipe we’ve made to date.  The kids gobbled up this cinnamon roll wreath (naturally) and begged for more.

When you top the caramel apple cinnamon roll wreath with a homemade caramel apple icing, you’re in for an out of this world experience.  We topped our caramel apple cinnamon roll wreath with cranberries, dried blueberries, nuts and powdered sugar too.

The inspiration for this new holiday tradition

Every year, on Christmas morning, my mom would pop open a can of cinnamon rolls and pop them into the oven. We all knew that she would get the middle one and then the rest were up for grabs.  I remember begging to lick the icing container of any last remnants that remained inside. It was pure bliss as a child.

Now, that my girls are older, I love making them cinnamon rolls too.  It’s actually an amazingly fun thing to make with them. We have them on special occasions or just because, but it’s always awhile in between. Their giddy laughter warms my heart when I tell them what we are making. They jump up and down, dance, and run around with excitement. They too love to lick the bowl of icing when I’m done pouring it on. Can you blame them?

For the holidays though, I wanted to do something extra special.  We decided we were going to make a wreath out of our cinnamon roll dough. We may have done a few more practices runs at this one….strictly for testing purposes only. *wink wink* 

This is now one of our family traditions and the girls absolutely love it. So do we.

What ingredients do you need to make a caramel apple cinnamon roll wreath?

A cinnamon roll wreath can be made very similarly to a regular cinnamon roll recipe; however, the difference in this recipe comes in when you add the caramel apple part. For the cinnamon roll wreath, the ingredients that you need are:

  • flour
  • sugar
  • salt
  • instant yeast
  • unsalted butter
  • water
  • whole milk
  • eggs

Those ingredients will make the dough of this caramel apple cinnamon roll wreath. The next part is the caramel apple filling and for that, the ingredients that you will need are:

  • apple cider
  • brown sugar
  • maple syrup
  • heavy cream
  • unsalted butter
  • vanilla
  • salt
  • nutmeg
  • apple pie spice

If you want to make a cinnamon roll wreath with the caramel apple filling, but just a traditional cinnamon roll wreath, you would just need cinnamon and brown sugar.  We’ll explain below.

Lastly, there’s a delicious caramel apple icing that we add to the top of this. For the icing, you’ll need:

  • apple cider
  • cream cheese
  • powdered sugar
  • apple pie spice

How do you make a caramel apple cinnamon roll wreath?

In a bowl, you’ll start to make the dough. Add in the flour, sugar, salt, and yeast. You’ll add water and milk to a bowl of warmed, melted butter and pour that into the flour mixture.  Next, add in the eggs.  Then, knead with your hands until the dough is no longer sticky. Let it rise for just 15 minutes.

While the bread is rising, make the filling by combining the apple cider, brown sugar, maple syrup, heavy cream, unsalted butter, vanilla, salt, nutmeg, and some of the apple pie spice into a sauce pot. Let that cook over medium heat for 10 minutes, barely touching it. You are essentially making caramel sauce at this point and it’s best not to touch it. Remove, let cool.

Roll your risen dough out into a rectangle.  It should be about 30X20 in shape. Spread the cooled caramel apple sauce across the dough. Spread the remaining pie spice across the top. Roll up the dough into a log.

Essentially at this point you could turn them into cinnamon rolls by just cutting into even slices.

To make the cinnamon roll wreath, you’re going to make sure the seam side is down and slice lengthwise. Then, place the two pieces side by side with the filling side up. Starting at the top, fold one piece of dough over the other and braid the two strands until you reach the end. Pinching the ends together. Place on a greased baking sheet and form a circle. Cover and place in a warm preheated, but turned off oven. After 35 minutes, turn the oven on and cook for roughly 35 minutes.

Make the caramel apple icing while your cinnamon roll wreath cooks. Pour on top when you remove and let cool for a few.  Serves 16.

Can I make these into caramel apple cinnamon rolls instead of the a cinnamon roll wreath?

Absolutely! Whether you don’t feel like taking the extra steps or maybe a little intimidated by making a cinnamon roll wreath (seriously don’t be), there may be reason for you wanting just regular caramel apple cinnamon rolls instead.

You will make the recipe as directed until you end up with a rolled up log.  Instead of slicing the cinnamon roll log down the center, you will just cut into slices. You should be able to get 18 rolls out of the log that you roll.

Then you will proceed with the recipe as directed, but only bake the cinnamon rolls for 25-28 minutes. It’s super easy!

What other recipes could I serve for a holiday or Christmas brunch?

Obviously this recipe, makes for an absolutely amazing holiday brunch or breakfast centerpiece. It’s gorgeous, tastes amazing, and will completely wow people. However, you need more than this to serve! Other brunch or breakfast holiday recipe ideas are:

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Festive Caramel Apple Cinnamon Roll Wreath
Prep Time
1 hr 5 mins
Cook Time
40 mins
Total Time
1 hr 45 mins
 
This Caramel Apple Cinnamon Roll Wreath is the perfect brunch or breakfast meal for the holidays! The perfect brunch show stopper! You will wow everyone with this easy cinnamon roll centerpiece. 
Course: Breakfast
Cuisine: American
Keyword: breakfast recipes, brunch, cinnamon rolls, holiday breakfast, holiday brunch, recipes
Servings: 16 slices
Calories: 400 kcal
Author: Larisha Campbell
Ingredients
For Cinnamon Roll Wreath
  • 5 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
  • 1/4 cup + 1 Tablespoon granulated sugar
  • 1 1/2 teaspoon salt
  • 2 packages instant yeast
  • 4 Tablespoons unsalted butter
  • 1 cup water
  • 1/2 cup whole milk
  • 2 large eggs
For caramel apple filling
  • 1/2 cup apple cider
  • 1 cup brown sugar
  • 2 tbsp maple syrup
  • 1 cup heavy cream
  • 1 stick unsalted butter
  • 1/2 tsp vanilla
  • 1/4 tsp salt
  • pinch nutmeg
  • 3/4 tsp apple pie spice + 1/4 tsp apple pie spice divided
For caramel apple icing
  • 2 cups apple cider reduced to 1/2 cup
  • 6 oz cream cheese softened
  • 1 cup powdered sugar
  • 1/4 tsp apple pie spice
Optional Toppings
  • Chopped pecan
  • chopped almonds
  • cranberries
  • dried blueberries
  • powdered sugar
Instructions
  1. Preheat the oven to 200 degrees.
  2. Grease a 14x16 pan with coconut oil and set aside,
  3. In a large bowl, add flour, sugar, salt, and yeast.
  4. Whisk to combine well.
  5. Set aside.
  6. In a small microwavable bowl, melt butter (about 30 seconds).
  7. Add in water and milk to butter bowl and heat for an additional 30 seconds.
  8. Carefully mix together so heated through.
  9. Pour the butter mixture into the flour mixture.
  10. Add the eggs and knead with hand until the dough is no longer sticky (do not overknead)

  11. Place in a bowl and cover with a tea towel for 20 minutes to rise. Make filling while dough rises. 

Make the Filling

  1. Add all the filling ingredients, reserving the additional 1/4 tsp apple pie spice for later, to a medium saucepan.

  2. Heat over medium for 10 minutes, only stirring 2-3 times max. This will bubble up a bit but that's fine.
  3. Remove from heat and let cool slightly.
Finish the Cinnamon Roll Wreath
  1. After dough has risen for 20 minutes, roll it out into the shape of a rectangle. This should be roughly 30x20 in size. Ensure that you don't have more dough in the middle than you do at the ends or your wreath will not be even.
  2. Spread the cooled caramel apple filling evenly across the rolled out dough. Work quickly so the filling doesn't harden.
  3. Evenly spread the remaining 1/4 tsp apple pie spice on top of the filling.
  4. Working from the longest side, tightly roll dough up. It's important that you get it as tight as possible.
  5. With the seam side down, cut the cinnamon roll in half length wise.
  6. Carefully place the two pieces side by side and place the right side over the left side.
  7. Continue to braid the two strands until you reach the end.

  8. Then carefully move the roll onto your greased baking sheet and form a circle, shaped like a wreath. 

  9. Cover lightly with aluminum foil.

  10. Turn the oven OFF and place the covered wreath into the oven for 35 minutes to let rise. 

  11. After the 35 minutes is up, turn the oven back ON to 375 degrees and remove the foil.
  12. Bake the caramel apple cinnamon roll wreath for 35-40 minutes or until the top is golden brown and the center is cooked all the way through. Note: if your oven brown faster and you notice golden brown around 25 minutes, place the foil back on top.
Caramel Apple Icing
  1. Add 2 cups of apple cider to a medium saucepan over medium high heat. Reduce down to 1/2 cup liquid. Remove from heat and let cool.
  2. In a medium bowl, beat together cream cheese and powdered sugar.
  3. Add in apple pie spice and reduced cider and blend until combined well.
  4. Place in fridge until ready for cinnamon roll wreath.
  5. Remove cinnamon roll wreath. If some of the filling has pooled into the middle, use a spoon and drizzle across the top of the wreath. Let cool.
  6. Top with caramel apple icing and optional toppings.

  7. Serves & Enjoy!

Recipe Notes

**Nutritional facts are just estimates. Please utilize your own brand nutritional values to double check against our estimates.  Nutritional labels to not include optional toppings, but does include icing.

Nutrition Facts
Festive Caramel Apple Cinnamon Roll Wreath
Amount Per Serving (1 slice)
Calories 400 Calories from Fat 117
% Daily Value*
Fat 13g20%
Saturated Fat 7g44%
Cholesterol 60mg20%
Sodium 313mg14%
Potassium 150mg4%
Carbohydrates 64g21%
Fiber 1g4%
Sugar 29g32%
Protein 6g12%
Vitamin A 490IU10%
Vitamin C 0.4mg0%
Calcium 56mg6%
Iron 2.3mg13%
* Percent Daily Values are based on a 2000 calorie diet.

This was truly one of our most favorite things that we have made on our site before and we hope that you truly enjoy it as much as we have. Happy Holidays from our family to yours!

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