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3 Things You Need to Know About Postpartum Depression

March 13, 2020 by Larisha Campbell Leave a Comment

*DISCLOSURE: THIS IS A SPONSORED POST ON BEHALF OF INSPIRA HEALTH. THOUGHTS AND OPINIONS ARE 100% MY OWN. AFFILIATE LINKS CONTAINED IN THIS POST.

I have been very open about my own personal postpartum depression experience in the past, but it is still a question that we receive emails about asking for us to expand on more.  I think that it’s one of those things where most people are still afraid to even talk about it for fear of being labeled as a bad parent. 

Luckily, it does seem like more and more people are being more open to discussing what it looks like and how it affects individual families. 

Postpartum depression isn’t a cookie cutter.  It doesn’t look the same for everyone.  Some people may experience mild symptoms while others may be in the thick of it daily. 

That doesn’t mean that one person has it easier.  

What I think I have learned throughout this journey of parenting is that what may derail me or completely upend my own life or how I handle situations, another person may not be affected by that at all. And vice versa. 

It’s important for us as parents to realize that being a new parent (whether it’s baby #1 or #8) can affect each of us differently. 

I had a chance to ask Dr. Josephine Urbina from Inspira Health about postpartum depression and I wanted to share with you 3 things that I feel like could help all new parents in the beginning of trying to understand it. 

How do you know it’s postpartum depression and not “baby blues”?

Dr. Urbina said that up to 75% of birthing parents will have experience with crying, anxiety, mood swings, and even restlessness during the first few weeks after giving birth to their baby. 

This is known as “baby blues” and completely normal.  Hello, complete shift of hormones!

These feelings can even escalate when you are tired or anxious.

According to the National Institute for Health, 10-20% of birthing parents will be affected by postpartum depression.  

After two weeks of baby blues symptoms, if you are still feeling overwhelmed or like you can’t take care of your baby, then something more serious may be happening, like postpartum depression. 

Some common signs, according to Inspira Health and Dr. Urbina are: 

  • feeling of hopelessness
  • anxiety and panic attacks
  • loss of appetite
  • feelings of failure
  • thinking your baby or family may be better off without you
  • lack of concentration 

If you have any of these signs, it’s important to follow up with your care provider to get help. Always seek help immediately if you feel like you may hurt yourself or your baby

I’m afraid if I reach out, they will take my child away. Is this true?

It’s embarrassing to ask for help, especially if you feel like you aren’t living up to being the best parent. Even more so if you are feeling helpless, having anxiety attacks or even postpartum rage. 

Inspira Health doctors, nurses, and care team members, along with other hospitals just want to assist parents in getting the help they need. 

They work to help identify how the parent is suffering from postpartum depression and then update their charts, get them connected with behavioral health team members the same day they reach out, and provided resources, groups, and assistance in helping the parents get through postpartum depression.

Dr. Urbina says that things like eating well, getting rest, exercising, and medications can all help with postpartum depression and their goal is to get you the help you need. 

In the case of postpartum depression, a trained professional can find you the right treatment for yourself and your family. 

I feel like I have postpartum depression, but my care provider told me no. What now?

Inspira Health doctors, nurses, and midwives actually screen for postpartum depression throughout pregnancy. If you have any concerns you can reach out during or in between any visits. Their goal is to provide emotional, physical, and spiritual support to help you understand the changes before, during, and after birth. 

This way you can get the right treatment and support immediately. 

If you still feel like you need more, you can always reach out to another provider for a second opinion.

We know that having a baby, let alone having a new baby with postpartum depression isn’t easy. We hope that this helps in answering some main questions about postpartum depression.  Do you have other questions?  Let us know and we will be sure to answer them below. 

Read more about postpartum depression from Inspira Health.  

THANKS TO INSPIRA HEALTH FOR SPONSORING THIS SERIES OF POSTS ABOUT OWNING YOUR PREGNANCY YOUR WAY.  WE WILL BE SHARING MORE WITH AND FROM THEM OVER THE NEXT FEW MONTHS, INCLUDING THE OPENING OF THEIR BRAND NEW FACILITY IN MULLICA HILL, NEW JERSEY. STAY TUNED FOR THE FUN!

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How to Make Kid’s Canvas Name Bags with Large Cricut Easy Press

February 7, 2020 by Larisha Campbell Leave a Comment

This is a sponsored conversation written by me on behalf of Cricut. The opinions and text are all mine.

 

If you are looking for an easy first project with your Cricut Easy Press, then these Kid’s Canvas Name Bags are just the project you’ve been looking for to make. 

If you were like us the first time you saw your Cricut Explore Air 2 and Easy Press, you may have been a little intimidated or even nervous.  

Luckily, there’s easy projects to do that can make the process, quick, easy, and painless. 

The reason I wanted the easy press, is because I love the idea of vinyl projects; however, certain things, I wanted it to look like it was seamlessly on there instead of raised like you get with vinyl projects.  Luckily, Cricut makes brand new infusible ink vinyl that allows for this to happen perfectly. 

I know that most people like to do t-shirts for their first Easy Press project. It makes sense. I think most projects in general that people see are t-shirts, so it only makes sense that it must be an easy first project. 

However, I thought a canvas bag made more sense.  Why? 

  • Bags are stiffer/sturdier then shirts so less opportunity to move around or slip messing up the transfer
  • Don’t have to worry about sleeve and make sure they aren’t in the way
  • Allows for a little bit of error. 
    • If I did happen to slip, I’d be able to play off a slight blip in a bag. But a shirt, you could clearly tell when wearing. 

One of the reasons that I love using Cricut so much is that I am able to view tutorials that walk me through step by step what I need to do.  This project was no exception. 

I used this tutorial by Cricut to walk me through everything I needed to do. 

The first thing I needed to do was create my design in Cricut Design Space.  I just wanted names so I wrote the names and chose the font I wanted. I chose Wildflower for this project. I measured the space I wanted the bag to fit on and then expanded the letters in order to be accurate (in this case 9 1/2″ for Serenity and a little smaller for Storm). 

Pro Tip: The letters will not be touching when you initially type out the word.  In order to get them to touch, adjust the letter spacing.  Once you have them touching, click Weld on the bottom right. 

When it is time to print your project some quick tips for doing this type of project. 

  1. Make sure you click mirrored image. You need it to print this way so it goes on correctly to the bag using the infusible ink. 
  2. Since you are using infusible ink, if you are also using a Cricut Explore Air 2, you will turn your dial to custom and then select Infusible Ink as your material. 
  3. If you do not do #2, the machine will not cut through the entire material and you will not have a clean cut
  4. Make sure to follow the tutorial above, in regards to heating the item and rolling clean with a lint roller. 

Once your word(s) are cut, use your weeding tool to remove any excess material.  The only thing that should be left on the sticky side is your actual word. 

Use your weeding tool to remove any excess pieces around letters like O, T, S, and Y. *For reference, you can see the excess material in the y in the photo above that hasn’t been removed yet. 

Follow the steps in the tutorial above for layering order of the butcher paper and time and temperature settings. 

It’s really important in this step that you do not move the Easy Press and instead you keep it as still as possible.  Moving it can cause the ink to move. 

Voila! All done!  

      

We were so excited with how they came out! 

If you make one, share a picture with us on social media and tag us at @wereparents

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Mom’s Delivery Bag Essentials

December 2, 2019 by Larisha Campbell Leave a Comment

Mom’s Delivery Bag Essentials is a no-fluff list of things you actually need to pack for once you have the baby.   

*DISCLOSURE: THIS IS A SPONSORED POST ON BEHALF OF INSPIRA HEALTH. THOUGHTS AND OPINIONS ARE 100% MY OWN. Affiliate links contained in this post. 

If you are anything like I was when preparing to have my two children, then you are likely 38 1/2 weeks and just realized that your baby is literally coming any day and you should probably pack.  Therefore, you definitely need this list of mom’s delivery bag essentials. 

Also, if you happen to be 20 weeks or so and looking at this, then kudos to you, I’m so proud of you!  Can you teach me and the others ready this how to not procrastinate? 

But seriously… Why is it so overwhelming to think of what to pack into of a bag that you are only going to use for hopefully a day or two?  It seems so much more complicated that if you were just packing to go away for 2 days.  

Today, I’m going to be sharing my must haves in mom’s delivery bag for postpartum.  We’ll share our newborn baby bag essentials in another post! 

For reference, Dr. Vivian Vega, Chair of the Department of OB-GYN at Inspira Medical Center Woodbury
and the new Inspira Medical Center Mullica Hill, recommends that your bags be packed by 36 weeks. 

So what do we bring? And more importantly, maybe what’s not even needed.  Because let’s just all go ahead and admit that when we overthink things, we end up packing too much. 

We don’t need to do that here. 

Promise me that you aren’t going to do that here. 

I’m waiting…..

Promised? Okay, good. Moving on. 

Listen, I’m not going to fill your list with a bunch of fluff and be unrealistic.  So here’s your perfect, no-
fluff, mom’s delivery bag essentials list for non-scheduled vaginal births.

Mom’s Delivery Bag Essentials Must Haves

  1. Important documents –

    • A lot of hospitals have you fill out forms ahead of time now; however, it’s still important that you being along your ID, medical insurance card, and list of your medications.
    • I’d also throw in that if you have a written birth plan, bring that along as well. 
  2. Lip Balm 

    • You will see this on every single hospital bag packing list that you ever read. And for good reason.  Hospitals tend to be dry and this can crack your lips.  Bring the balm every time! 
  3. Hair Tie

    • My hair is always up, however, if you always wear your hair down, ensure that you have a hair tie in the bag.  Trust me, most moms don’t want their hair in the way during delivery. 
  4. Cell Phone Charger

    • Not during delivery, but afterwards, you are going to be taking photos and videos and making calls — your phone will drain that battery quickly.  If you can, having a portable battery pack is even better since you have no idea how far away outlets are in your hospital room. 
  5. Any of your favorite things 

    • If you wear make up, bring it. If you have a favorite toothpaste, bring it. Or, if you have to sleep with a certain pillow every single night, DEFINITELY BRING IT. 
    • Whatever your MUST HAVEs are in your day to day life, you should absolutely bring any of them.  Don’t go overboard, but if you must brush your hair and moisturizer during the first 10 minutes after getting out of bed, then those are two things you should absolutely be bringing. 
  6. Flip flops for the shower

    • After you deliver, you’ll certainly want flip flops for the hospital showers. You don’t
      want to risk falling/slipping.
  7. High protein snacks for after delivery 

    • I remember that with our second, she was born in the middle of the night and the hospital cafeteria wasn’t open.  Luckily, I was prepared with some high protein granola bars. 
    • Even if you don’t give birth in the middle of the night, depending on how long your labor is and how long it takes to get everything done, it could be awhile before you are able to eat.  Packing snacks helps so much! 
  8. Nursing pads 

    • Even if you aren’t planning to breast feed, your boobs are still going to leak a bit of milk
      and nursing pads can help.
  9. Nipple cream 

    • Nipple cream is a lifesaver.  Your hospital will likely have some, but it will be in those individual use packages.  We like bringing our own so we can use as much as we want and also to reduce our waste.
  10. Sitz spray 

    • Thank. Me. Later. 
    • This stuff is AHHHH-Mazzinggg.  And your lady parts will be so grateful that you have this both at the hospital and once you get home. 
  11. Super loose clothing to wear home

    • Repeat after me: “I will not bring clothes that I fit in before getting pregnant”
    • Postpartum, especially the first few days after is not glamorous.  Your body, for most people, doesn’t just snap back. Therefore, bring that super comfy, baggy clothes in order to wear home. 

Bonus 1: Boppy pillow. If you are planning to breastfeed, absolutely bring your nursing pillow in with you. If will help you start to practice using it and always be able to ask the lactation consultant if they have any tips if you aren’t getting it right away. 

Bonus 2: If you are planning to need to be at the hospital for an extended induction or stay, packing a robe and slippers to walk around would definitely be useful. 

Now go prepare to enjoy that beautiful baby! 

We hope you found this list of mom’s delivery bag essentials helpful.  What would you add to the list?

THANKS TO INSPIRA HEALTH FOR SPONSORING THIS SERIES OF POSTS ABOUT OWNING YOUR PREGNANCY YOUR WAY.  WE WILL BE SHARING MORE WITH AND FROM THEM OVER THE NEXT FEW MONTHS, INCLUDING THE OPENING OF THEIR BRAND NEW FACILITY IN MULLICA HILL, NEW JERSEY. STAY TUNED FOR THE FUN!

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Balancing Screen Time in a Tech Driven World

September 19, 2019 by Larisha Campbell Leave a Comment

Balancing Screen Time isn’t always easy but with the right tools and monitoring, the right balance can be achieved for every family. 

This post was sponsored by Google in partnership with the Forward Influence Network. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

I’m going to be real honest with y’all. Balancing screen time is not something I am always good at if we are being real with each other.  

I mean they are normal kids who want to watch TV and play on their computers, but beyond that I also work from home (sometimes I need them distracted) and we homeschool (they are both in online programs).  When you add those things together, it’s easy to see how too much screen time can add up quickly.  

But there are ways that we are working to ensure that they are having adequate balance in their lives. 

In turn, I’m learning that I too need more balancing in my own life. Isn’t it funny when that happens?  We sometimes realize that what we are doing for our kids is actually benefitting us as well?  It’s a win-win in those situations if I do say so myself. 

Being that I work in a tech driven world, it’s obvious to see how quickly my own time can add up. 

So what are we doing and how are we balancing everything?

First, I’m going to be upfront and say that not every day is perfect. Let’s just get that out of the way. This isn’t one of those posts where I’m going to say that everyday we are nailing it. Because that’s not real life.

But these tips will help on *most* days and that’s better than no days.  Am I Right?

Why is it important to work on Balancing Screen Time

At the end of the day, what really matters to you?  It’s important to find balance in your digital wellbeing because, if we are being honest, most of the things you are doing on the computer/phone/tv aren’t what is important.  

This isn’t to say your work isn’t important.  But 8/10 times you scrolling through social media or binge watching 10 episodes of the newest season of your favorite show isn’t going to help your wellbeing any (or your kids). 

What is going to help your overall wellbeing is getting outdoors more, spending quality time with those that you love, and ensuring that your home space doesn’t feel overwhelming to you. 

When you work on balancing screen time and in turn your overall digital wellbeing, then you improve your overall mental health as well. 

Whether you are working to  minimize distractions or unplug more often in order to be with your family, Google offers tools that can help. You can visit wellbeing.google to learn more.

5 Ways to Work on Balancing Screen Time for Kids (and adults!)

The first three ways are just suggestions and there can be broad ways to think outside of the box on both of them. 

  • Have a designated family time nightly that doesn’t include screens

    • For us, this means no phones at the dinner table or around our bedtime routines.  
    • Most nights it includes family reading time where I read a chapter book to them for a set amount of time or chapters
    • It can also include family game nights where we play board games or cards or do some other type of activity
    • Sometimes it also includes taking a walk together as a family 

No matter what your family time activities include, try to be intention that the hours surrounding dinner and bedtime don’t include screens. 

  • Commit to outdoor play time

    • If you are a stay at home parent, this could be a set number of hours you spend outside daily
    • If your children are in school, send them outside to play or take them to a park for 30-60 minutes after school every day to get them to decompress naturally from the stresses of school 
    • Pick a hobby outside together – maybe it’s planting flowers or a garden or building a new play area.  Find ways that you can enjoy each other together
    • Or find new outdoor activities to try together – like canoeing or snowboarding

  • Sign your kids up for sports or some extracurricular activity

    • We enjoy soccer and maybe gymnastics depending on the time of the year it may be swimming
    • However, if your children aren’t interested in sports, find anything screen-free activity that can do. Maybe it’s art classes, lego clubs, baking course, or music lessons. 
    • The library is a great resource for free screenless activities that your children can participate in. 

And finally, the last two are more concrete ways of limiting and balancing screen time for both your children and yourself. 

  • Set Rules

No matter what device you are using – tablet, phone, computers, speaker devices, etc – you should have rules. 

It can be as simple as no devices in your room and only 2 hours of screen time a day.  Or more detailed rules like no devices after 8pm or only TV on the weekends. 

Whatever you do is up to each individual family and will even vary between ages of your children. 

We recently learned about Google’s Digital Wellbeing Family Guide and think that everyone should print it out and fill it out the Family Guide poster with their families.  It’s such a great tool about screen and being better about your time and devices for the entire family! 

We have started to fill out our own and know that as our children grow older it will change, but it could be a great thing to fill out at the start of every school year.   

 

  • Set Limits

This is a big one, especially for teens and through adulthood, we really need to have limits and sometimes we need reminders of that. 

One limit app that I am really loving is the Youtube take a break reminders.  You can set in a time limit and when you reach that it will reminder you and suggest that you take a break.  We all know how easy it is to just keep clicking.  This is even useful for younger kids who love watching their favorite people like Ryan’s Toy Reviews or JoJo Siwa. 

Google’s Family Link also allows you to set daily time limits and bedtime hours so you don’t use your devices after those times. You can even remotely lock a device like your teen’s computer so they can’t use it after the limits that you set. 

I’m sure you may get a little backlash or some sass if you’ve never set limits before, but it’s up to us all to do better, be more aware and more present for everyone around us. 

To discover more tips and tools, visit wellbeing.google to find a balance with technology that feels right for the whole family. 

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Teacher’s Favorite Things – The School Supply That You Must Have!

July 15, 2019 by Larisha Campbell Leave a Comment

Disclosure: This shop has been compensated by Collective Bias, Inc. and its advertiser. All opinions are mine alone. #KleenexCareForClass #CollectiveBias #ad

When it comes to back to school, we know the kids need supplies.  But in order for a super smooth year for everyone, this Teacher’s Favorite Things printable will be the key to a successful year for all!  

Whether you send your kid to public, private or home school like we do, you are going to need school supplies.  Every year it seems as though, the lists get longer. You find yourself wondering how in the world these kids go through so many school supplies.  I can tell you first hand, since we homeschool, that they really do go through all those school supplies.  Especially things like pencils, glue, and paper.  Kids loose pencils. They doodle on the paper. And the glue?  Well, sometimes it seems as though they eat the glue when my back is turned. 

I remember the first year we dove into homeschooling, we thought we would save money.  One of the ways we did that was buying school supplies that were generic brands or from dollar type stores.  We quickly learned that there’s a reason the products were cheaper.  They didn’t work as well. 

Truth be told (and I’m not just saying this), but the saying “you get what you pay for” when it comes to school supplies is 100% true.  Since then, going into our fourth year of homeschooling, we know now that quality products are where it’s at. 

This isn’t just for homeschool though.  Teachers around the globe will confirm that quality products are more dependable.  We surveyed some of our teacher friends and they all agreed that you will get more money for your supplies if you buy quality brands. Sometimes though, unless we are in the classroom, we don’t understand why some things are on the list. 

I remember seeing a friend’s list and I was like why does your kid need paper towels and tissues. They explained that in smaller grade classrooms, they have sinks and need paper towels for the kids to dry their hands.  The school supplied towels are harsh and especially in the winter can really hurt the little hands.   

Also, kids are germ-y and therefore tissues, ones that are durable and soft, are a must. 

The best Paper Goods

It was a no brainer that those supplies should be Kleenex® and Viva®.  I remember the first time I used a Viva paper towel.  It was like sorcery.  It was so soft!  I know that when it comes to kids these are the best, especially in the harsher winter months of school.  Whether the teacher needs to wipe tears or a runny nose, you know that your little has the softest option available. 

Viva® Towels Signature Cloth not only deep clean quickly and more efficiently, but it’s great for wiping off dirty knees or cleaning desk.  There are 2X more durable which means your kid’s teacher needs to use less and you’ll have to send in less later in the year.  Viva helps to make a cleaner environment so you can worry less while your littles are away.  And even if you homeschool, you can rest assured that all these things benefit your own classroom too! 

You can grab these products and all your school supplies at your local Target!  There’s deals coming your way too! Offers will be good for both in store and Target.com. Check back for great deals on household paper at Target from July 29-August 4th and August 11-17th.

Teacher’s Favorite Things – The School Supply That You Must Have!

You get a supply list and you know that you need all of those things.  However, if you really want a terrific year, you need one more thing!  You need a questionnaire of your kids’ teachers favorite things!  

This free printable will really make a difference in your year and the year the teacher has.  No more wondering if the gifts you buy are wanted or going to be thrown away (what a waste of money!).

Instead, you know the exact things that your kids’ teachers want and are able to buy accordingly.  Natural favorite things like candy and drinks, but also where they like to eat and shop so that if you want to buy giftcards you can to places they will actually shop at. 

What’s even better is that there are even places for them to write in what they always run out of or things that they need in their classroom.  If you even feel compelled to do more or see a sale, you are able to know that you can pick up these things and it will be very appreciated by the teacher. 

It’s really a great way to make sure that the year goes great! 

Click on the photo below or click here to be able to print out the printable for free! 

 
 
 
 
 
 

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Hatfield Calzones

March 19, 2018 by Larisha Campbell 2 Comments

These Hatfield ham and sausage calzones are delicious homemade calzones perfect for any time of day! Endless possibilities with this calzone recipe!

Disclosure: This shop has been compensated by Collective Bias, Inc. and its advertiser. All opinions are mine alone. #HatfieldEaster #CollectiveBias

ham and sausage calzones

Growing up, pizza wasn’t really a staple in our home. Curry, jerk, exotic to Americans fruit…those were the staples.  We didn’t have sausage and ham often, and homemade pizzas never happened. Rarely, we maybe had pizza take-out. Growing up Jamaican, we didn’t have a lot of traditional American foods. When I went away to college at West Virginia University, I didn’t have anyone to cook for me.  American styled foods were the norm. Between dorm food and fast food, it’s pretty much all I had.

College is also where I tried my first calzone.  It was great because I could walk and eat it without worrying about toppings falling off.  When I met Larisha and she knew how to make these from scratch, I didn’t believe her. Then, she showed me and we’ve made endless varieties since then.

Homemade calzones are great for breakfast, lunch, dinner, after school snack, and quick dinners on the road! You get the point. There’s really not a time that a calzone wouldn’t be good ever.

how to make a calzone

What is a calzone?

A calzone is pizza dough that has been folded over and baked after ingredients have been put inside of it. Typically, it’s filled with meat and cheese. Sauce is always served on the side of calzones and never inside of it.

These particular ham and sausage calzones are combined with peppers, garlic powder, and cheese. The flavor impact from these few ingredients is insanely delicious. It makes for an amazing recipe after Easter if you have leftover ham!

We make our ham and sausage calzones with Hatfield Recipe Essentials Sweet Italian Ground Sausage and leftover Hatfield Original Ham. Hatfield Recipe Essentials are simple, flavorful, pork that add flavor to your dishes. The Hatfield brand character is high quality, trustworthy, knowledgeable, family oriented, American-owned, value-based company.

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How do you make a calzone?

If you are wondering how to make a calzone, you’ve come to the right place.  The first step is to make homemade pizza dough or grab some store bought.  Separate it into equal pieces and then rolls into a ball.  Once you have balls, you want to roll them out into approximately 6″ circles.  Note: calzones can be any size but 6″ is the perfect handheld size for on the go. It’s vital that your dough is even and not thin in any one place or you risk your dough breaking.

Then, places your ingredients on one side of your circle. Afterwards, fold the empty side over and using a fork, seal the edges together.  Next, brush with butter and bake in an oven for 20-25 minutes. Serve alongside sauce.

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Hatfield Ham and Sausage Calzones
Prep Time
15 mins
Cook Time
25 mins
Total Time
40 mins
 

These ham and sausage calzones are delicious homemade calzones perfect for any time of day! Endless possibilities with this calzone recipe! 

Course: Lunch, Main Course
Cuisine: American, Italian
Servings: 8 calzones
Calories: 435 kcal
Author: Larisha Campbell
Ingredients
  • 1 pizza dough
  • 3/4 lb Hatfield Sweet Italian Ground Sausage, cooked
  • 3/4 lb Hatfield Original uncured ham, diced
  • 1 cup bell peppers, mixed colors
  • 1/2 tsp garlic powder
  • 1 tsp ground black pepper
  • 1 cup shredded pepper jack cheese
  • 1 cup shredded sharp cheddar cheese
  • 2 tbsp unsalted butter, melted
Instructions
  1. Preheat oven to 425 degrees. 

  2. In a bowl, combine sausage, ham, peppers, garlic powder, and pepper. 

  3. Separate pizza dough into 8 equal balls. 

  4. Roll out one ball into a 6" circle. 

  5. Place 1/8 of the mixture on one side of the circle. 

  6. Fold empty side over and using a fork seal the edges of the calzone. 

  7. Place on a baking sheet and repeat with remaining ingredients.

  8. Once all calzones have been made up, brush melted butter across all of them.

  9. Place in oven and cook for 20-25 minutes or until golden brown. 

  10. Remove from oven and let cool for 5 minutes before serving. 

  11. Serve alongside honey mustard bbq sauce.

Recipe Notes

Do not roll out more than one ball at a time or the dough will stick to the surface. Make one at a time.

Honey Mustard BBQ Sauce is not included in nutritional facts.

Nutrition Facts
Hatfield Ham and Sausage Calzones
Amount Per Serving (1 calzone)
Calories 435 Calories from Fat 234
% Daily Value*
Fat 26g40%
Saturated Fat 12g75%
Cholesterol 85mg28%
Sodium 1361mg59%
Potassium 290mg8%
Carbohydrates 25g8%
Fiber 1g4%
Sugar 4g4%
Protein 24g48%
Vitamin A 955IU19%
Vitamin C 24.1mg29%
Calcium 217mg22%
Iron 2.7mg15%
* Percent Daily Values are based on a 2000 calorie diet.

Hatfield Recipe Essentials come in the following varieties: Hot Italian Ground Sausage, Sweet Italian Ground Sausage, Ground Pork, Chorizo Ground Sausage and Country Ground Sausage, Tex-Mex Pork Strips and Simply Pork Strips. Grab them at your local store today!

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I Don’t Sleep With My Husband

February 22, 2018 by Larisha Campbell 8 Comments

I don’t sleep with my husband is a look into the lives of real parenthood. This post is about the truths of parenting and how if may not be ideal, but parents do everything to find a working solution for their family.

I don't sleep with my husband

Spoiler Alert: First off, we aren’t even married so technically he’s not my husband.

Secondly, get your mind out of the gutter. We’re talking about shutting my eyes and sleeping. Trust me, my sexual needs are being taken care of. TMI????

Now that you have that imagery in your head, let’s get started.

I don’t sleep with my husband.

We sleep in separate rooms which means separate beds. He sleeps in our master bedroom and I sleep in our girls’ room with our girls. Most of the time…it’s complicated.

I remember the first time I told a friend that she looked at me like I had 35 heads. What did I mean we didn’t sleep in the same bed? What kind of nonsense was this? We weren’t 80, why was this happening? I laughed, but she was genuinely confused. And this is typically how the conversation goes every single time it comes up with a friend.

How did we get here?

Let’s go wayyyyy back. It wasn’t always like this. A little over 5 years ago we had our first child. We swore she would never end up in our bed. After not even a week, we were both exhausted. No one was sleeping. The baby ended up falling asleep on my chest one night and all three of us had the best sleep since becoming a family of three. Our journey into attachment parenting kicked up a notch after that night. Soon, she was in our bed all the time. We figured out the safest way to bedshare (co-sleep) and never looked back after that.

cosleeping best for family

We slept this way for over 2 years until baby #2 came into our lives. Things got a little more complicated at this point. Andrew has extremely long days at work outside of the house, so it was important to both of us that he got sleep. We tried transitioning our first into her own room, but ultimately, it was a lot of back and forth for me.

I’m not the type of person that can function on little sleep so something had to change and change fast. Our home was miserable. Everyone was grumpy. And everyone was being affected. The solution….sleep in separate beds. Him in our own master bed and me with our girls in their room. Most nights, I will fall asleep with him in our room and then when one of the girls wakes up, I will go in their room for the rest of the night.

bed sharing better for family

“This is why we don’t co-sleep. Life is not functionable like this.”
“I would have done cry-it-out. There’s no way I’m not sleeping with my husband in our bed.”
“Your sex life must be miserable.”
“The kids would have to go.”

We’ve heard all these things, but what these people fail to realize is that this is a temporary solution. The way we’ve chosen to live our lives isn’t the end of the world, nor is it a permanent solution. Our goal when having kids was to fit ourselves into their lives, not them into ours. But seriously. This isn’t the end all be all. The world is this cruel and evil place. Now, more than ever. Right now, our girls need closeness and comfort that they get from laying with their mother for a few hours every night.

Also, this works for us! Everyone is happy. Our girls sleep (mostly). I sleep. Andrew sleeps. That was our goal and we are succeeding at it even if it’s not a traditional method that everyone has. Our girls are the most important thing we’ve even done and we know that only a few more weekends are going to go by before they are moving out of our house. Truthfully, think about it. We have 18 summers with our children. We all know how fast summers come and go, so for us, we are going to savor the few nights that seem like a drop in the bucket until they no longer need me. Until then…I don’t sleep with my husband. 

PS. Why do people assume that because you don’t sleep for 7 hours in a bed together at night means you aren’t having a sex life?  Y’all realize that sex does not have to happen in the bed at night after the lights are out and you are supposed to be going to bed right? Okay then. 

PPS.  We’re still happy and in love and thriving in our relationship!

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12 Procedures to Decline During Pregnancy

January 10, 2018 by Larisha Campbell Leave a Comment

This post about 12 Procedures to Decline During Pregnancy will walk you through routine procedures you can decline. 

Procedures to Decline During Pregnancy

Congratulations! If you are reading this, you are likely pregnant. It’s supposed to be this extremely joyous moment in your life, yet you may often be surprised how many procedures are done during a short period of time in your life. For most women, pregnancy is not a serious medical condition. For those women, it’s important that they know they have a right to decline many unnecessary procedures.

Let’s Discuss WHY you would want to decline procedures during pregnancy

If you have a normal pregnancy – that means no at-risk signs, no prior complications in other pregnancies, no significant risk factors – then there are many things that you are subjected too simply because maternal care is treated as a one-size fits all method.  Especially in the United States, if you choose obstetric care, you are being molded into cookie cutter pregnancy care, with many procedures being absolutely unnecessary. Do you really feel like being poked and prodded for 40+ consecutive weeks? I know I didn’t. For most pregnancies, there are no risk factors, meaning you can decline procedures.

are procedures during pregnancy necessary

What Procedures to Decline During Pregnancy 

1- Nuchal Translucency Screening (Genetic Testing)

This is an ultrasound performed during weeks 11 and 13. It tells you the likelihood your baby may have certain medical conditions, such as Down’s syndrome.   Why Decline? This test is typically only 70-75% accurate. Additionally, ultrasounds heat tissue and it’s advised to be avoided during the first 13 weeks of pregnancy.  Also, if you feel like having a baby with a condition such as Down’s syndrome would not affect your decision to continue your pregnancy, then it’s even more unnecessary.

2- Glucose Testing

Let me start by prefacing that you aren’t all out declining to take a glucose test. Looking at your glucose levels during pregnancy is actually very important.  What you would be declining is the bottled drink they offer to all pregnancies.  Why Decline? There are many other healthier alternatives to the bottled drink. The bottled glucola drink has a high amount of chemicals and an unrealistic amount of sugar that the normal human body would consume. Because of that, many women have false positives during the one hour test, and have to repeat, adding more chemical and more sugar. Learn about your glucose alternatives here. 

3- Third Trimester Ultrasounds

A late-term ultrasound refers to any ultrasounds after week 24. The excitement of wanting to see your baby before birth is why most women will accept this type of ultrasound. Why Decline? Studies show that late term ultrasounds have been linked to an increase in caesarean section. Additionally, when used to determine size or dating of baby. Late term ultrasounds are highly likely to be off in dating up to 2 weeks and as much as 2 pounds. Studies have shown that late term ultrasounds are off as much as 20-30%.

4- Internal Exams

This is one of the most common procedures done during the third trimester, especially in the last 4 weeks; however, it’s also one of the most unnecessary. It’s also done throughout labor if you labor in a hospital, but you can decline all of these. Why Decline? For one, they can be extremely painful. They also increase the risk for infection. But more importantly, the information obtained during an external exam can change so rapidly, it makes the results obtained void. Also, if done during the last 6 weeks, it is linked to a higher increase in caesarean section. Simply put – Doctors are typically trying to see how effaced and dilated you are; however, you can go from 1cm to 10cm in 60 minutes or it may take 4 weeks, so there’s no need to have any of these done.

5- Early Induction

Also known as an elective birth.  This is where you decide to speed up the birth of the child, typically before or around 38 weeks.  Why Decline? For starters, babies truly need to be born on their own schedule.  Some babies come “early”; however, most births happen at 40 weeks or later, especially during a first pregnancy. When babies are forced to come earlier, they can suffer from a variety of medical conditions, such as breathing problems and jaundice, as well as being more likely to end up in the NICU (neonatal intensive care unit).

6- Unnecessary Induction

You’ve made it to 40 weeks! YAY! That doesn’t mean that you automatically need to schedule an induction. In fact, you should wait. One case where you shouldn’t wait is pre-eclampsia. However, many women are induced for convenience, to either the parents or doctor. This type of induction is unnecessary and even dangerous. Why Decline? In fact, up to 60% of mothers who induce unnecessarily end up having an emergency caesarean. Inductions speed up a more painful labor, leading to an epidural which slows down pregnancy and the downward spiral continues. One study found babies born from an induction were almost 65% more likely to end up in neonatal intensive care unit.

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7- Epidurals

An epidural during labor is a needle that places anesthesia into a women’s spinal canal. It allows a mother to be awake but feel little to no pain below the point it’s placed. Why Decline? For starters, epidurals slow down labor. The longer you are in labor in a hospital, the higher your risk of caesarean. Also, depending on the length of your labor, an epidural placed early on in your labor may deliver too much medication and hinder your ability to push. An alternative is learning breathing techniques and considering a water birth.

8- Continuous Fetal Monitoring

Ever been sick and forced to lay in bed all day? IT SUCKS! Now, imagine having painful contractions and not being able to move around. During continuous fetal monitoring and electronic band is hooked around your stomach and records your baby’s heartbeat. Why Decline? Being restricted in your movement has an increased risk of caesarean.  Additionally, it’s best for a mother to be able to move around, listen to her own body, and get into a labor position that is ideal for her body and baby.  Ask if your hospital has wireless monitoring or can do intermittent monitoring (monitoring for 10 minutes on, 50 minutes off).

9- Routine IV Hook-up

For many women, continuous monitoring and IV-hook up go hand in hand.  But the truth is that it doesn’t have too. Why Decline? Once you are hooked up to a monitor, you are tethered to a pole, reducing the ability to really move in the desired position your body wants too. Instead, ask for the option of a saline lock (or Hep-Lock). It’s a IV catheter put into your vain. Then it is flushed with saline and capped off. This allows you to move freely while also allowing medical teams to quickly hook up an IV if it’s truly necessary.

10- Breaking Your Water

Sometimes an obstetrician will tel you this is routine or can shorten labor time.  Why Decline? Studies, however, have shown that this can strengthen contractions leading to breathing complications and reduced heart rate for babies. Once a baby’s heart rate drops, your risk for caesarean section greatly increases. For many mothers, their water will break naturally during labor and in some cases, babies will be born in caul. Neither of these warrant medical intervention.

11- Episiotomy 

An episiotomy is when a cut is made to the opening of the vagina to enlarge the space for the baby’s head to come out. In very, very rare cases this may be needed. Specifically, to use forceps in order to quickly get a baby out and avoid a caesarean. Why Decline? However, if your doctor wants to just do an episiotomy because they see you may tear, it’s unnecessary. They actually take longer to heal than a natural tear, the risk for infection is increases, and complications from sewing the cut afterwards are likely. This is something you should ask your care provider about before labor.

12-Automatic Repeat Caesarean

A Vaginal Birth After Caesarean (VBAC) is highly, highly possible for most women. More than 75% of women who go for a VBAC are successful. Some doctors will try to say a VBAC is not an option, but there are always options for different care providers. Why Decline? Caesareans are major surgery and the more often a caesarean is preformed, the great the risks are to the mother. Recovery time is also reduced for vaginal deliveries.  Check out ICANN for more information on VBACs.

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Final Thoughts on Procedures to Decline During Pregnancy

The overall idea is to decline unnecessary procedures that force you into a cookie cutter mold of pregnancy. With the rising rates of American maternal and infant mortality, it’s important to look at why this is happening. One reason is that with normal pregnancies that don’t need these procedures, the risk of caesarean rises. If we can continue to speak for our rights as women, we will hopefully start to see those numbers decline.

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Why You Need to #GetCovered

December 15, 2017 by Larisha Campbell Leave a Comment

Disclosure: This post is sponsored by Oscar in partnership with Collectively for the #GetCovered campaign.
You never think it could happen to you. Ever.

Our not so amazing day.

I remember the day like it was yesterday.  My sweet 2.5 year old playing around, laughing, and giggling. It was a normal day for us.  Just her and I sitting around having fun. Daddy was at work and, at the time, she was an only child. It was a good morning. Then, while she was sitting on the arm of the couch, she fell off.  She had fallen from much higher surfaces.  She had done some seriously much crazier stunts. But this one time was enough to do damage. She had broken her arm.
I knew enough to know that kids heal quickly and that she would be back to normal in just a few short weeks.  What I didn’t know at the time, is that even though we had insurance, the cost of a simple fall would be in the thousands.  The bills continued to come in and every time I was shocked at how much was covered and how much we still owed. I couldn’t imagine being a family in a situation where they didn’t have health coverage.  Our lives literally could have changed in that moment.
 

How to Make Sure You’re Covered

Today, I want to make sure that you are ready for any of life’s little obstacles that may get thrown at your family in 2018 (Let’s all just hope there’s nothing though).
Through December 15, 2017 at 11:59pm you can go to Oscar’s www.howtogetcovered.com and enroll for coverage.  Bonus: If you live in NY or CA you have until January 31, 2018. This is the only time that you can sign up for Open enrollment for the 2018 year.  When on howtogetcovered.com you will find simple language and tools that makes it easy for you to find the coverage that’s perfect for your family.
Whether you want to prepare for life’s unexpected situations like we’ve learned we need to do, have a chronic health condition, are planning a medical procedure in 2018, or just need to keep up with prescriptions, Oscar’s howtogetcovered.com can help. Sleep easier knowing that you’re covered.
Protect future you. Get informed. Get covered.

Ready?  

Head over to HOWTOGETCOVERED.COM and fill out your forms today.

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5 Tips For a Great Date Night at Home

October 4, 2017 by Larisha Campbell 1 Comment

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I remember before we had kids that we thought dating was hard. Andrew worked really long hours during the week and I typically worked every weekend, mostly at night. Still, it wasn’t really that difficult to find time to go out on a date before kids. After having kids, our dating essentially ceased to exist. Neither of us were comfortable leaving our baby alone with anyone. Once she was finally old enough that we were comfortable, we found out we were expecting again.  Repeat process. Then, add in the fact that dating with kids is NOT cheap.  I mean dating before kids wasn’t cheap. $60 for dinner +  $50 for the movies or another activity = $110 and that was a cheap night. Add in paying for a babysitter and it’s like WHOA, NELLY. I just dropped $250.

We got smart.

Somewhere in the midst of the hard times, we realized that we could just date at home and have as much fun (sometimes more) than if we were paying to go out. It was less cost, less stress, and more bonding for us. With our at-home date night, we’ve grown closer to each other. It’s a win-win for our relationship and our wallet.

5 Tips For a Great Date Night at Home

  1. Clean Up Your Dating Space
    • Having a clean house actually relaxes your stress levels and allows you to enjoy your time together without worrying that you could be doing other things (like cleaning the house).  You don’t have to spend hours cleaning up, but just make sure that the general area that you will be using is straightened up.
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    • A few hours before we are set to have a date night, I make sure that the smell of our dating space is on point. The aroma can really set the mood. Calming scents, like lavender, can ease your mind and allow you to enjoy each others company while setting the mood for dating. I am loving the Nature’s Truth® wax warmer with unscented wax melts that allows me to scent as desired.*
  3. Have an Agenda
    • This isn’t set to put added stress into your night.  Rather just having a laxed scheduled by which to go by for the evening so you are focused solely on the date.  Without an agenda, we sometimes found that we would just be like, “uhh, what’s next and then end up on our phones.”
  4. Put Electronics Away
    • Speaking of phones.  Put them away.  We prefer to leave all our electronics upstairs if you are dating downstairs or vice versa. You’re dating. You don’t need added distractions from things that don’t matter.  Bond together.
  5. Dress Up
    • This may sound silly, but seriously, dress up! Especially if you are a stay-at-home parent, there’s not likely many opportunities you have to dress up or for your partner to see you dressed up. Dressing up boosts your confidence. Do it!

**Bonus: Have a minute to unwind and just talk. **

When’s the last time you just put everything down, sat on the couch and just talked to your partner?  Take five minutes and just talk.  Reminisce about a fun time in your life or something really cool that you recently learned about. Take this time to really reconnect with each other.

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